--Paradoxical Commandments--

Paradoxical Commandments

People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered
love them anyway

If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives
do good anyway

If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies
succeed anyway

Honesty and frankness makes you vulnerable
be honest and frank anyway

The biggest mean and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds
think big anyway

People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs
fight for a few underdogs anyway

What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight
build anyway

People really need help but may attack you if you do help them
help people anyway

Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth
give the world the best you have anyway

--Hi Hater--

What really constitutes as a hater?

1.) someone who doesn't like you?
2.) someone who talks about you?
3.) someone who doesn't respond when you say "what's up"
4.) someone who looks at you differently
5.) idk lol

I mean this is America and people are entitled to not like certain people that's natural, but what isn't natural is how malicious people can be in their efforts to try and destroy another individual. I mean there are people I look at and say "hhmmmmm I don't think I can actually get along with that person"...that doesn't give me the right to hate them..wait I could hate them...but that would belittle my soul..so I should chose not too. Hating someone means relentlessly trying to avoid that person, thinking/hoping about there mishaps, etc... If I "Hate on You/Hate You" why the hell would I want to be reminded about you consistently.? Still what constitutes as a hater? I'm sure everyone has them. Those one or two individuals that constantly watch your every move trying to evoke a sense of wrong doing? Like get a life...lol

but in the words of someone I look up to

"I realize that I've arrived when it takes more than a magazine to kill my vibe"-Kanye West

replace magazine with gossip, rumor, blog, facebook status lol, etc.

"Haters" as they are so respectively called are suppose to drive us to make sure we don't mess up and also give them something to talk/think about.

It's one thing to say your the truth or how real you are but to go and be false and be a hypocrite? hhhmmmmmm really? How unreal can you get?

but everyone is entitled to what he/she wants to do? I just don't understand the need for trying to destroy some else...be happy for you and stop worrying about the next person.